Mystery of Parenthood

Mystery of Parenthood

Most parents will agree with me, children exhibit most of the following characteristics:

Ignorance, selfishness, sensuality, degrading passions, hypocrisy, pride, jealousy, envy, mischief, wickedness, hatred, lack of reasoning power, frivolity, cruelty, derive pleasure in doing evil, etc.:

All the aforementioned characteristics exhibited by children clearly show that most children sent into this world are the embodiment of negativities and imperfections. It is the sacred responsibility of parents to strive to get rid of their inherent imperfections and make them perfect. A difficult task, you might say? Yes, it is. I want you to bear the following important points in mind, pertaining to the nature of the souls occupying the physical bodies of children.

  1. In the spirit world, souls belong to different categories. They are not equal, to one another, either, in morality, intelligence, knowledge, and power, etc.
  2. The majority of the souls, belonging to the lower categories, in the spirit world, are the ones, incarnating or reincarnating, in the bodies of children.
  3. Souls, belonging to the lower categories, are the embodiment of imperfections. In order, for them to attain perfection, they must subject themselves, several times, to earthly trials.
  4. The moment they attain absolute perfection, through earthly trials,

Reincarnation ends for them, and, in the spirit world, they will find themselves, dwelling, in the midst of, superior spirits.

I presume you have realized most of the terrible characteristics exhibited by children emanate from the imperfect souls, occupying their human bodies.

Souls sent to parents:

Souls are not randomly sent from the spirit world to pregnant sister women. If it were to be so, there would have been nothing like the reincarnation of an ancestor, in the family.  There would have been nothing like one of my sons is exhibiting some of the exact characteristics of his late grandfather. Reincarnation in the same family is very common, and that is a crystal-clear confirmation,

Souls are not randomly sent into families. Of a truth I tell you, before a sister woman, create a fetus, the law of karma will attract to her,

A soul, who, in a previous earthly existence, has been associated, either, pleasantly or unpleasantly, with, the sister woman, or with the brother man who will be, the father of her child.

Of a truth, I tell you, sometimes, the soul that is about to re-incarnate hang around the sister woman for weeks, or months before the formation of pregnancy. The incoming soul will continue to monitor the sister woman waiting for the moment when sexual intercourse will occur, and favorable condition for the formation of the physical body, it will reside. The moment the conditions are right, the soul will project a magnetic thread into the ovum of the sister woman. The magnetic thread will cling to the life-germ, a brother man deposited in the sister woman.

The magnetic thread attached to the embryo is very fragile, and easily broken, but, the soul’s intense desire for earthly existence will strengthen the magnetic thread. Also, further protection will be provided by the law of karma which attracted the soul to that particular family. We rejoice, whenever a sister woman, successfully delivers a baby. It’s not easy.

Quite a number of sister women died during delivery. It appears the sister woman who just delivered is happy, because she is now free from irritation, discomfort, and health problems, encountered at various stages of her pregnancy. That is understandable! However, if she is happy because she thinks and believes that she has given birth to a brand new soul, I urge her to think again.

Pregnant sister women, rarely give birth to brand new souls. They often give birth to their missing half, their late father or mother, their late grandfather or grandmother, their late great grandfather or great grandmother, their brother or sister, or recently dead baby, in the family. They equally give birth, to their sworn enemies: souls, having unfinished business, with them, etc

Of a truth I tell you, families are awash with stories such as my son displays, incredible characteristics of my late grandmother. Or she is displaying attributes of an elderly person. Obviously, the young girl is the reincarnation of an ancestor. I have met a mother, who told me as she was approaching her late grandmother’s house in the village, her six-year-old daughter told her, Mummy, I have lived here before. I think I should further define the zigzag, forward and backward movement, of the law of karma within a family. This is a husband, wife, and child.

The wife was karmically connected, to her husband. That was why, karma brought them together as husband and wife, for a reason. The child was drawn, into this family, because it’s a past relationship with the husband, who is now, the father of the child.

Now, let’s assume a prophet told the husband, the baby your wife is carrying will cause you so much pain, and because of this frightening revelation, they decide to abort the fetus. The law of karma will continue to bring back the soul of the aborted baby again and again, until the husband having a karmic bond with the baby, pays the debt he owes to it.

I want you to bear in mind, karma is not all about revenge and payback. Certain souls reincarnate in a certain family, because of a pleasant relationship formed in a past life with some members of that particular family. The birth of such a soul will bring joy, financial breakthrough, and upliftment to that family. Some parents have noticed their pathetic situation changed for the better after they gave birth to this particular baby.

Mother’s missing half coming as her baby

The soul is the embodiment of male and female. It usually split into two separate parts, when coming to planet earth to exist as a human being. A sister woman could give birth to a baby boy whom in reality, is the male part of her missing half. The sister woman will be uplifted and filled with happiness, during the entire, period of pregnancy. In the night, she will dream of the unborn baby, and in the morning, she will plan beautiful things for the baby. The pregnant sister woman will be surrounded by the aura of the unborn baby, she loves better than any other person on planet earth. Unknown to her, the baby boy in her womb is her soulmate.

There are many strange things, almost too strange for one to believe, but because one is ignorant about them, it does not mean, they are not real.

Pertaining souls coming, going back, and coming again, in revelation, it is written, souls shall go no more out when they overcome.

I will show you…

Revelation 3:12

he who overcomes, I will make him a pillar in the temple of my God, and he shall go out no more.

Quite revealing, very educational, when a soul gets rid of inherent imperfections, and materialistic tendencies through spiritual discipline, the soul becomes a pillar of immortality in the temple of God. That is the end of reincarnation for such an overcomer. In summation, it is indeed a divine privilege to become the father and mother of a child.

Parents who carelessly and recklessly assume the responsibility of child training, parents who shrink away from their responsibilities, parents who allow viciously inclined persons, to care for their children will not evade the spiritual penalty.

WATER SPIRITS IN MARRIAGE

WATER SPIRITS IN MARRIAGE

brother man and sister woman, this great lesson, concerning marriage can never be complete if I ignore the presence of water spirits in the marriage institution. It’s obvious, isn’t it? Water spirits are celebrities people cannot just stop talking about them, can they? In my own evaluation, water spirit is the greatest spiritual problem confronting countless people all over the world.

I presume, in your dealings with very emotional beings like water spirits, many of you have realized, if you are bad, water spirits are worse, if you are mean, water spirits are meaner, if you are determined to get rid of them, water spirits are more than determined to remain attached to you.

What most people fail to realize is that water spirits are deeply connected to their emotional nature, so if you don’t control your emotions you will definitely create a pleasant atmosphere for the water spirit attached to you to get hold of you and break you down attacking the whole of your being and your human pursuits and expectations.

People having links with water spirit must learn to control their emotions. They must not allow their emotions to control them or else the water spirits in their lives might gain the upper hand because the territory of water spirits is the emotional plane. Let me ask you this, intermittently, do you swim in a dream? Do you eat in a dream?

Physically you cannot retain pregnancy, but in a dream, you find yourself in water with babies, whom you cannot deliver physically right? but you don’t want to be seeing yourself in water with babies again, you want to have those babies here on planet earth, right? so that you will not be thrown out of your matrimonial home. Maybe most of your contemporaries, your friends, age mates already married have children and you don’t want to be left out.

No matter what you are passing through, as long as you have realized a water spirit is involved, you must learn to control your emotions or else, expect the unexpected and the water spirit might never leave you. Always bear in mind, the water spirit attached to you is connected with the water element in you, it is deeply connected with your emotional reaction, so whenever your emotions are violent, it simply means you are asking them to come and cause further confusion, be rest assured, they will, they always do. If you want a water spirit to let go of you, you have your own pivotal part to play for that to happen. Water spirit will never go away if you don’t play your part very well. I presume by now most of you have realized that.

I have said this once, this is twice, with the right approach few people will severe their relationship with water spirit but majority of us will never be able to sever the bond they have with water spirits, however, with the right approach, they might minimize water spirit harassment but severing their bond with the water spirit, I regret the impossible and you know why?

 The bond most people have with water spirits is so deep-seated, the bond I am talking about here goes beyond my ancestral family members had dealings with water spirits that’s why water spirit is harassing me or I inherited it from my father or my mother etc, these set of people belongs to the category of, the sins of the fathers being visited upon the children.

 Of a truth, I tell you, the spiritual bond most people have with water spirits goes beyond all the aforesaid.  Now pertaining inheritance of a water spirit,  it appears most people tormented by water spirits think or believe, as they were coming into this world, they were actually coming with many goodies, then the moment they entered into their mother’s womb, they inherited water spirit from maybe their mummy or daddy, then the inherited water spirit shoved aside the goodies they were coming with into this world, took dominion over their life and  inflicted them with bad luck, marriage delays, sex and eating in dream state.

Most people are wrong thinking this way; it is through after-all, most people are suffering because of a lack of spiritual knowledge. I am of the opinion 70 percent of the problems confronting people having a relationship with water spirits might be emanating from them and 30 percent might be coming from the water spirits attached to them.

Many people aver, many people often say, if not for the water spirit tormenting me, I would have been married by now; I might have won that contract. Whenever I am expecting something good to materialize in my life, the moment I eat in a dream, it will never materialize again. While I was single, pregnancy was never my problem. It only became a problem after marriage. I was two months pregnant during my wedding and immediately after the wedding, I experienced miscarriage, and ever since, I cannot retain pregnancy, wherever I go, they keep attributing the problem to the water spirit in my life.

And the most perplexing aspect is despite all that I have done, the water spirit refuses to go away. My brother man and sister woman have you been fighting for years futilely to severe the link you have with a water spirit? If your answer is yes I wish to make clearer, there is an invisible thing within you that attracted and retained the water spirit in your life.

Water spirit issues should not always be seen as something inherited from daddy or mummy or your ancestors. I intend to shed light on this invisible thing but before I do that, please permit me to shed light on the nature of water spirits tormenting countless people from their innermost being.

My brother man and sister woman we are not alone, aside from the divine hierarchies, the animal and human kingdoms, there are also other beings existing in the various invisible worlds, amongst them are certain classes of sub-human beings known to us as the elemental spirits. Of a truth, I tell you water spirits are one of the elemental spirits of nature. Water spirits reason like human beings, they have a language like human beings; also they have minds but no spiritual soul.

They have their kings and queens and obviously, the Almighty God is abundantly taking care of them, they see the sun and the stars, they have their summer and their winter and their own water soil bear fruit for them. My brother man and sister woman, of a truth I tell you a water spirit can enter into the astral body, into the ghost body of a brother man and appear to him and remain with him, enter into physical marriage with him and bear children with him and the children will be human beings.

 Human beings are the embodiment of water and water spirits are connected with the water elements in our own nature and they are deeply connected with the emotional aspect of human beings. Now as a human being, on a daily basis you go out and strive to raise money which you need to take care of yourself, your family and other people depending on you.

If you are a business person, each day you open your shop and expect people to come into your shop and patronize you. In the same vein in your innermost being, if you are seeking for true love, you hope to find one as you go out on a daily basis. Also, if you are working in an office, you crave to be admired by your superiors and everyone around you so that you can excel in your place of work.

My brother man and sister woman, you need magnetism to achieve all the aforesaid. Of a truth I tell you, water spirits govern magnetism, let me put it in another way, water spirits create attraction between people and they stimulate and feed our various emotions and spiritual impulses which means if you go after them aggressively they will contaminate your magnetism, and the moment your magnetism is contaminated, you may never find true love, you may never succeed in business, people indebted to you might be reluctant to pay and people might despise you for no justifiable reason.

It is interesting to note water spirits are not tormenting everybody has links with them quite a number of magnetic and successful individuals have been assisted by water spirits and most of them are not conscious of the fact they have a relationship with water spirits.

As human beings, we like certain people; we want to be around them because we like them. And at the same time, we despise certain people and we want to stay aloof from them because we don’t like them, in the same vein my brother man and sister woman, naturally, water spirits admire certain classes of human beings and they loathe, they hate certain classes of human beings.

Of a truth, I tell you, water spirits are attracted to human beings that are simple-hearted, childlike and sincere. If there are less vanity and hypocrisy in you, you can deal with water spirits easily. On the other hand, however, water spirits hate vagarious human beings, they hate pretentious human beings, human beings that talks carelessly, they hate unrefined human beings, they hate overbearing human beings, people that think they know too much, and lastly, they hate people that are too eager to get things done. So you see, my brother man and sister woman it is the nature of a person that determines whether he might be assisted or tormented by a water spirit attached to him or her.

 My brother man and sister woman, I want to let you into a secret, I have already told you water spirits have minds, they reason like human beings, they have a language like human beings, they have animal intellect, but I forgot to tell you one important thing and that is, in the next cycle of evolution, a water spirit will develop into a human being.

You now see the reason why I keep telling my students and admirers of Desires Pathfinder water spirits cannot be termed demonic spirits, they are sub-human beings, partly human and partly spirit. Right now, we all are human beings definitely we evolved, we passed through the certainly evolutionary chain to arrive at the human being level and from the human being level, we are striving to attain other higher levels.

Let me put it in another way from the sub-human level, we evolved to the human level, from the human level we will evolve into the superhuman level, from there onto to another level, the last level is the illuminated level. So right now a water spirit is a sub-human being, meaning it is below the human race in evolutionary development, however, in the next cycle of evolution, a subhuman being shall become a human being.

My brother man and sister woman I freely admit I have received tons and tons of questions from people watching Desires Pathfinder enlightenment program concerning water spirit and here comes my response.

  1. Is it right and proper for water spirits to have to deal with human beings? The answer is no, it is not right, water spirits have no right to come to planet earth because they do not belong to the human kingdom, they belong to another sphere of evolution, they belong to the element of water. Therefore any water spirit coming to planet earth is encroaching into the human kingdom.
  2. Guru, Is it true water spirits do have sex with human beings in the dream state? Yes they do, they are very promiscuous.

  1. Guru, Is it right and proper for human beings to deliberately make up their minds, to carry out certain rituals in order harmonize themselves with a water spirit so that they can achieve success, gain riches, etc.

I am of the opinion it is not right. It is not right and proper for a human being to conduct certain rituals, and maybe keep a table with a bottle of soft drink in order to win the affection of a water spirit. Such an act is a marriage ceremony between a human being and a water spirit. The truth is nothing more disastrous than marriage with a water spirit. There is nothing in their nature that can satisfy human beings, they derive pleasure although not deliberately but they derive pleasure inflicting pain on human beings close them. Their actions are definitely based on the laws of their own nature. The laws of their own nature are very destructive to human beings.

  1. Guru what would you say about the nature of water spirits? They are very malicious; they possess the mischievous destructiveness of a monkey. They are absolutely irresponsible. Of a truth I tell you naturally sympathy, gratitude; morality and honesty are absolutely foreign to water spirits. It is not in the nature of a water spirit to be sympathetic, to be honest, to show gratitude or to embrace morality. It is not in their nature at all.

LOVE AND MARRIAGE

LOVE AND MARRIAGE

My brother man and sister woman, as human beings, as long as we are still breathing we shall keep striving to achieve all our heart’s desires. We pine to have money, we all pine to get married to the right person, so that divorce will not be our potion, we all pine to have children, etc, of a truth I tell you my brother man and sister woman, there was a brother man who set to climb Mount Everest so that he can make a name for himself but just before he got to the top of the mountain he died and many people exclaimed, Oh God, how sad, he almost made it to the top of Mount Everest.

From the spiritual point of view, it is not wasn’t sad at all, because he did well by climbing Mount Everest to a certain level, it is inconsequential whether or not he made it to the top of the mountain. My brother man and sister woman, this narrative is telling you, you cannot fulfill all your heart’s desire. None of us will leave planet earth with even half of our desires fulfilled.

I wish to call to mind belligerent Moses never reached the Promised Land, he died on the way. I told you a brother man attempted to climb Mount Everest but died when he was about to make it to the top of the Mountain. I want you to bear in mind, climbing is the goal and the top of the Mountain is only a direction, not the destination.

Always bear in mind we are here on planet earth to learn certain often painful lessons and the love arena is one of the best places for one’s soul to acquire immense knowledge, growth, and purification. Of a truth I tell you in your innermost being, there is a part of you that loves to grow, loves a challenge, loves adventure etc and there is also a part within each and every one of us that is afraid of risks, that avoids challenges, that resist growth, but you know something life is a challenge and if you are ready to acknowledge that and see life as a challenge, the challenge itself becomes fun as the challenge of football or any other good game.

My brother man and sister woman, quite a number of unseen forces are active in the love and marriage lives of countless people and they don’t even know it. For instance, what we call Destiny, fate is active in marriage meaning certain people are destined not to find true love and despite all their human effort they will never find true love.

My brother man and sister woman, the story Joseph, the son of David interest me because it has to do with Destiny and Choice. I want to make clearer Destiny has a plan for each and every one of us or let me put it in another way, God has a plan for each and every one of us and we all are players in that plan, and whether we like it or not, whether we are conscious of it or not, definitely, we are going to contribute to the fulfillment of that plan.

In a mysterious way, we all serve to fulfill the divine plan of God, we all serve to fulfill the plan of Destiny for an individual. What most people fail to realize is that life itself is like a drama written by the Almighty God, written by Destiny. The number of actors to partake in the drama has already been decided. Now the question is what role will human beings choose to play in that drama?

One person might decide to play the hero, another person might play the villain, or the protagonist or the victim, etc. Most people fail to realize planet earth is truly a stage and all brother men and sister women are merely players. My brother man and sister woman, I presume you are well aware we are in a world of free will and free choice or as people put it, freedom of association.

You have the right to vote for a particular candidate you admire and you equally have the right to join forces with other people to ensure that the candidate doesn’t win the election. You can openly support that candidate by campaigning for him, also you can openly support that candidate, but secretly you are working against him.

In the same vein my brother man and sister woman; there is what we call Fate, Destiny, which is like a clear direction, a goal or a sealed and concluded Destination. Destiny means, what’s going to be, is going to be. The story of Joseph, the son of Jacob is truly talking about Destiny and the freedom of choice. Now hear this, young and ignorant Joseph had a dream.

He dreamt that his father and his brother men would one day bow down to him. That dream is Destiny. However when Joseph told his brother men, they didn’t like it one bit, they began to feel threatened. They decided to kill Joseph but in the end, they didn’t, acting on a sudden change of heart they didn’t kill Joseph rather they sold him as a slave into Egypt instead.

So you see mysteriously, Destiny used Joseph’s brother men to project him into greatness. They taught their evil plans will put an end to Joseph’s dream of future greatness but unknown to them; they were used to make it happen. So you see whether, whether you openly support a thing or work against it, what’s going to be, is going to be, what has been destined to happen, will happen.

Whether you like it or not, it will happen, whether you work against it or not, it will happen, plain and simple. Certain destined occurrences cannot be altered. I want to make clearer Destiny is very active in the love and marriage institution. Some brother men and sister women are destined to be happy or not to be happy in their love and marriage life.

My brother man and sister woman pertaining soul mates, I want you to bear in mind pertaining to marriage, not everybody that comes into your life is marriage material and you know why? We have six types of soul-mates; they are termed karmic soul-mates, primary soul-mates, task companionship, companion soul-mates, false twins and twin flames.

The last one termed twin flame is the highest of them all and the most difficult to come in contact with.  This is your true missing half and no material condition can prevent you from becoming one with the person despite what people might say to discourage you, in your innermost being, you know that this is the right person for you. Of a truth, I tell you if you are lucky to meet your twin flame in this life, the urge to become one, the urge to stay together as husband and wife till death do you part will be extremely strong.

In the same vein, karmic soul-mates is the lowest, the most common and the most turbulent. In a karmic- soul-mate marriage, you are so attracted to each other, both of you find it uphill to let go of each other even though the marriage is chaotic and full of strife.  Karmic-soul mate’s marriage is a marriage of paying off karmic debts. This is indeed sowing and reaping marriage, such as the way of karma. In the end karmic-soul mate’s marriages often collapses, after they are through with the issues that brought them together.

In the same a brother man could be so nice to his girlfriend, in her innermost being, she feels so good to be around him and she might be wishing, let him propose because she thinks he is marriage material. Of a truth, I tell you, if the brother man is a primary soul-mate, he is not marriage material. He may never propose.

Primary soul-mate should be seen as a close family friend. Also, certain sister women are married to task-companion soul-mate. Of a truth, I tell you, positive karma brought both of them together to accomplish a certain task and the moment the task is accomplished they might feel an emptiness in the relationship.

Of a truth, I tell aside twin flame soul-mate which is the highest, companion soul-mate is another good marriage material. Companion soul-mate relationship is very comfortable, supportive, respectful, and affectionate. Husband and wife, both of them are extremely compatible with similar likes and dislikes. In the marriage, there might be nothing like obsession or physical abuse and they are always together in good times and bad times.

In the same vein my brother man and sister woman, there is a false twin soul mate. Such a person might appear to be your original missing half because you will feel so happy, you will feel so fulfilled with the person because he or she might possess all the attributes your innermost being admires much later in marriage, you will realize that an individual is not your true soul mate, that person is a false twin.

My brother man and sister, if you epitomize all that I have said concerning the six types of soul-mates, you now see the reason why divorce must take place in certain marriages may be due to obvious incompatibility or perhaps they are through with the spiritual reasons that brought them together in a turbulent marriage and they need to dissolve the marriage and move on with their lives.

LOVE AND MARRIAGE

LOVE AND MARRIAGE PT 2

My brother man and sister woman true love requires that we see and accept and respect those we love for who they are and we must not project or impose our fantasies upon them. Difficult isn’t it? It is because most of us try to fit those we love into our imaginary pictures of love.

We want to turn those we love into a Robocop. For instance, most brother men crave to be attached to a sister woman they can absolutely control, brother men like these fail to realize a dominating relationship does not represent the image of God or image of love. Of a truth I tell you, I have heard brother men advising one another, get a young inexperienced and vulnerable sister woman, whom they can absolutely control as a wife, a sister woman who considers him as the lord and master.

Brother men like these fail to realize they will only make their lives harder as a result. Brother men like these fail to realize two heads are better than one, they don’t want a sister woman that will engage them. I have said it once, this is twice a relationship of dominance does not represent the image of God or the image of love.

My brother man and sister woman, of a truth I tell you it is only when two lovers give each other and help each other within a relationship of mutual respect and inclusiveness can they truly receive the gift of love. Dominating husbands and dominating wives, dominating lovers, I want you to bear in mind, true love is not achieved through domination. True love is all about appreciation of each other’s unique strengths; it’s all about mutual respect.

You cannot overcome loneliness and achieve true love if you are looking for someone who is subordinate to you and has no mind of his or her own. The other party you claim to be in love with is your helpmate and not your house boy or house girl. I am aware of a sister woman who got married and for more than seven years her husband who is well off, working in an oil company said, she must do nothing aside sitting at home and taking care of the kids.

However in her innermost being, she wants to do business, she truly wants to do something to support her husband, he said no. He doesn’t want his wife to mingle with outsiders in the name of doing business. As far as I am concerned this sister woman is in bondage because her husband fails to offer her an environment in which she can develop her unique sense of who she is. True love means, the husband must open up space within him to include his wife and the same applies to the wife.

 True love means, we are one, yet not one and the same because we are different types of human beings. True love means we are one, yet not one and the same. I can include you in my life, you can include me in my life, and thereby fulfilling the biblical injunction, of the two shall become one flesh. True love, therefore, is all about inclusiveness, two people appearing to share a single identity and yet at the same time, they are not one and the same.

 My brother man and sister woman the mystery of true marriage is the two shall become one flesh yet they remain two. The husband does not try to pocket his wife and his wife does not try to pocket her husband. The two shall become one flesh yet they remain two.

True love, true marriage is all about the coming together of two entirely different people, possessing different characters, now doing the work of getting to know each other, making space to include each other, help each other and in the end become one flesh.  I just don’t know why most of us find it difficult to leave certain things in their pristine order.

If you peruse the holy bible closely, you will agree with me the Almighty God did not create a sister woman to become a house girl to her husband, the Almighty God created a sister woman to be someone who will, in a very positive, respective way, will stand opposite him and engage him on parallel ground.

I wish to call to mind, in the book of Genesis, the Almighty God told Abraham, in all that Sarah had said unto you, harken unto her voice. But right now, most husbands are not prepared to harken to the voice of their wives. Also like Sarah, Rebecca, the wife of Isaac could hardly be described as subordinate to her husband; also Jacob did not dominate his two wives, Rachael and Leah.

So you see my brother man and sister woman the two truly do not become one flesh, neither do we have the oneness that reflects the image of God until within us we make space to include another and allow another to do the same. True love, therefore, is not a piece of cake, true love is not easy to achieve. 

Take my word seriously, true love is not easy to achieve, but it is easy to fall in love. Of a truth I tell you a brother man who fell in love in a big restaurant once told me, while I was eating in a restaurant, my eyes came in contact with a cute lady on the other end of the restaurant.

Her eyes equally caught mine and all of a sudden, we were exchanging glances and became lovers at first sight. I left my seat and went and sat close to her, we spoke to each other and there was this beautiful love song at the background and we fell in love. He said the same day, he took her home, eventually, they jump into bed, and there they did express the love they felt for each other.

I want to make clearer, sexual attraction alone is not the foundation upon which you can build a relationship. My brother man and sister woman, falling in love can truly be intoxication, falling in love often means losing control, falling in love brings about superficial oneness that often gives birth to serious problems.

Of a truth, I tell you a lot of very unfortunate things have happened in the name of falling in love. I want to make clearer; there is a vast difference between falling in love and real love. Real love is a process of getting to know somebody. You must truly get to know somebody because, how can you make a big space inside of you to include the person if you don’t know who the person is? If you just met a person, you cannot instantly begin to know who the person is.

Indeed you might even spend a great deal of time with someone over long periods of time and you still do not truly know the person. Of a truth, I tell you, real love has got to start with a sense of respect. For instance, if you are a sister woman, you can’t love a brother man if you don’t respect him and to respect him, you must know who he is.

When you know him, you become sensitive to his feelings and you realize when you have hurt him and then you know when to say, I am sorry. Building a relationship is hard and I want you to bear in mind, real love happens only after there is a commitment.

Real love is a nurturing process; you are nurturing a broken vessel. It takes enormous strength to do that. It is interesting to note everybody wants to be happy, now what is the key to happiness? It is making sure your actions are in accordance with your principles, for instance in a particular situation if you know the appropriate guiding principle is kindness and yet you decide to act in a cruel manner, what are you doing? You are betraying yourself.

If in another situation, you know that the appropriate guiding principle should be self-control and yet you lose control, it simply means you are fragmenting yourself and you will not be happy. Therefore to achieve happiness, your principles should guide and direct all your activities. Your activities should always synchronize with your principles.

LOVE AND MARRIAGE

LOVE AND MARRIAGE

It is no longer a mystery life is all about love. It makes no difference whether your love life is relatively okay or in turmoil, the truth remains life is all about love. Love keeps us going, pushing us through life; it is a powerful motivating force. Love keeps us alive. You eat well, you sleep well, you dress well and life is worth living because you know somebody loves and cares for you. My brother man and sister woman, you don’t need to wait for the appointed day for you to die, without love in your life, you are already a dead person wandering among the living.

Every brother man and sister woman yearns to love and be loved because life is all about love. We all are created in the image of God, but individually we do not represent the image of God, a lonely person does not and cannot represent the image of God, it is only the coming together of a brother man and a sister woman that truly reflects the image of God.

No wonder most people don’t truly feel complete that’s why they keep saying, I am looking for the right brother man or right sister woman to fall in love with and pending when that will happen, inwardly they must feel a vacuum, an empty space. A brother man or sister woman, without the right partner, is like a landlord who will not rest until all the empty rooms in his building are occupied by tenants.  Anything worthwhile in life is not easy of attainment.

It is not easy to become a rich person, it is not easy to own your own house, it is not easy to traverse the educational system, it is not easy to become a star, it is not easy to stand out in life, and certainly it will not be easy to find true love. No wonder people are falling in and falling out of love, because it is not easy to find true love.

Most people think marriage is something which they can achieve. Of course, after making strenuous effort many of us might be able own homes. Owning your own house? that’s quite an achievement but no matter the strenuous effort we make pertaining love, most of us may never arrive at our destined end because love simply means we are always on the road, but never reaching our destination.

I want to make clearer love is a journey and not a final destination, take my word seriously.  We all are well aware, failed marriages are commonplace today and you know why? Love is not something most of us will be able to achieve; it is a journey and not a final destination. I am of the opinion most people don’t truly understand the book of Genesis because if they do, they will truly know that human beings who are the embodiment of imperfections are equally residing in an imperfect world.

We are imperfect, most marriages, therefore, cannot be perfect and our world is equally not perfect. My brother man and sister woman, always bear in mind each day we encounter the forces of chaos and darkness within planet earth and within ourselves. We are here to strive to make ourselves better and equally strive to perfect our imperfect world.

Herculean task, isn’t it? Now pertaining marriage fiascos, marriage brouhahas I want to make clearer many people are not truly married to their true soul mates, but they are married to people that might prepare them to find their soul mates eventually. Certain people must have to go through such a marriage and a divorce so that they can learn what they have to learn in the turbulent marriage and only then are both of them, husband and wife in the turbulent marriage ready to locate, meet their soul mates with whom they can achieve the mysterious oneness, they can truly become one flesh, which truly reflects the image of the Almighty God.

Of a truth I tell you, there is a great problem confronting countless people today and that is the idea of a soul mate. The idea of a soul mate is greatly misunderstood these days. A student of mine once told me, Guru, don’t you think I would know my soul mate if I meet her? I told my student, I keep reverberating these words, know-thyself, the question is do you know yourself? He could not give me a convincing answer. So how can many of you know your soul mates instantly when you don’t even know yourselves?

Also, it is rather interesting to note that many think that an encounter with a soul mate is an event preordained in heaven, therefore it is often accompanied by all kinds of signs from above. If many marriages are truly preordained in Heaven if many people are truly married to their respective soul mates why are many marriages collapsing? My brother man and sister woman, I want to make clearer to those of you looking for some spiritual or religious assurances that your marriage or relationship was made in heaven,

I want you to bear in mind that the only thing made in heaven is what you are going to build on planet earth. Take my word seriously.  In the light of what I have said, I want to make clearer, in the end, quite a number of marriages will certainly fail, despite all their human efforts to save the marriage, in order for them to meet their true missing half.

I wish to call to mind a married sister woman based in Port Harcourt, whose four-year-old marriage was failing due to her inability to get pregnant. She has done everything humanly possible you name it. She has visited medical doctors, she has imbibed series of concoctions, and she has been prayed for severally, all amounted to nihility. She met me for counseling, I told her, there is absolutely nothing wrong with you.

Eventually, your failing marriage will come to an end, you will move out of Port Harcourt because of the failed marriage, then you will meet another brother man and you will get pregnant. Eight months ago, she sent me an email, telling me she gave birth to a boy in Edo state. She said, she missed her period within a few weeks of meeting a brother man in Owerri. You cannot magically change certain things. You need to physically change it.  I feel I have digressed a little bit let me continue ramming on love. People often say, I love her or I love him but it is sad to note most of them don’t truly know the components of love. Of a truth, I tell you kindness and justice are the components of love. Kindness has to do with giving yourself to the one you love. You are telling the one you love, what is mine, is yours, without conditions.

In the same vein, justice which is a component of love is all about respecting the one you love, his or her individuality, position, possession. It means you are telling the person you love, what is mine is yours and what is yours is yours. My brother man and sister woman, true love is like hugging, what do you do when you hug another person? With your arms, you create a space to include the other person. Of course, you must create a space in such a manner that allows the other person the freedom of opening his or her arms to include your own.

Of a truth, I tell you, true love cannot become your portion if you are self-centered because, in order to love, you must withdraw from yourself in order to create adequate space for the other party. What we call love truly starts when you move out of the way in order to make room for another person in your life. True love means becoming one with another person and at the same time detached from that person.

INCOMPATIBLE MARRIAGES Part 4

INCOMPATIBLE MARRIAGES Part 4

Incompatible Marriages.

My brother man and sister woman, you now see that many a time’s marriages are destroyed by elements that are insidious, elements that are hard to detect, invisible forces beyond human control. I presume to a great extent, you now know what to suspect when maybe for instance, you hear a husband saying things like, although I know my wife is educated okay, but I am sorry to say this, she is quite low, she finds it difficult to agree with me on many issues, if I tell her it should be like this, she will say no, I am getting fed up of this marriage, because of this.

This brother man is telling you he is active on the mental plane and he needs a wife that can complement his mental nature. I just want you to bear in mind quite a number of marriage discrepancies arise not from witches and wizards in the husband or wife’s family, or perhaps ancestral spirits, or water spirits, they might be arising from starvation of one or two of the seven bodies possessed by each of us.

The unmated body can compel someone’s wife to sleep with her driver or houseboy and when people hear it they will yell out, ha, why did she condescend so low? The unmated body can induce or compel you to do anything. In the end, you will say I don’t what came over me. In the same vein, my brother man and sister woman incompatible problems in marriage could arise from incompatible soul-mates.

Of a truth I tell you, we have six types of soul-mates, they are termed karmic soul-mates, primary soul-mates, task companionship, companion soul-mates, false twins and twin flames. Out of the six types of soul-mates, the highest of them all and the most difficult to come in contact with is twin flame.

When you come in contact with your twin flame, which is your other half, no material condition can prevent you from becoming one with the person despite what people might say to discourage you, in your innermost being, you know that this is the right person for you.

Of a truth, I tell you if you are lucky to meet your twin flame in this life, the urge to become one, the urge to stay together as husband and wife till death do you part will be extremely strong. In the same vein, karmic soul-mates is the lowest, the most common and the most turbulent.

In a karmic- soul-mates marriage you are so attracted to each other, both of you find it uphill to let go of each other even though the marriage is chaotic and full of strife.  Karmic-soul mate’s marriage is a marriage of paying off karmic debts. This is indeed sowing and reaping marriage, such is the way of karma.

In the end karmic-soul mate’s marriages often collapses, after they are through with the issues that brought them together. Our elder brother man, Paul was right after all, when he said, God is not mocked; we must eventually reap whatever is sowed by us. In the same a brother man could be so nice to his girlfriend, in her innermost being, she feels so good to be around him and she might be wishing let him propose because she thinks he is marriage material.

Of a truth I tell you if the brother man is a primary soul-mate, he is not marriage material. He may never propose. Primary soul-mate should be seen as a close family friend. Also, certain sister women are married to task-companion soul-mate. Of a truth, I tell you, positive karma brought both of them together to accomplish certain task and the moment the task is accomplished they might feel an emptiness in the relationship.

A sister woman in task-companion marriage once told me, Guru, my husband is a nice person, I have never regretted meeting him. We have two kids, he provides for all of us, I love him but for a while now I feel an emptiness in the marriage, the feeling refuses to go away, I just feel we should dissolve the marriage and just be friends. Guru, can you tell me why I keep having this feeling?

My brother man and sister woman such is the way of task companion soul-mates marriage. Of a truth, I tell aside twin flame soul-mate which is the highest, companion soul-mate is another good marriage material. Companion soul-mate relationship is very comfortable, supportive, respectful, and affectionate.

Husband and wife, both of them are extremely compatible with similar likes and dislikes. In the marriage, there might be nothing like obsession or physical abuse and they are always together in good times and bad times. In the same vein my brother man and sister woman, there is a false twin soul mate. Such a person might appear to be your original missing half because you will feel so happy, you will feel so fulfilled with the person because he or she might possess all the attributes your innermost being admires much later in marriage, you will realize that individual is not your true soul mate, that person is a false twin.

My brother man and sister, if you epitomize all that I have said concerning the six types of soul-mates, you now see the reason why divorce must take place in certain marriages may be due to obvious incompatibility or perhaps they are through with the spiritual reasons that brought them together in a turbulent marriage and they need to dissolve the marriage and move on with their lives.